Some teens, especially those with troubled families, think that foster care is worse than running away. Whatever your experience may be, the majority of foster parents truly care about the health and well-being of their foster children.
You may feel like running away is your only solution, but this kind of thinking is never accurate. [4] X Research source There are always many solutions to a problem, and running away should be a last resort. As a teen, it will be difficult for you to make money to pay for food and shelter. Unfortunately, because of this reason, around 1 in 3 teens who run away resort to trading sexual favors for food or a place to stay. [5] X Research source This will put you at risk for sexually transmitted diseases, sexual abuse, and/or manipulation.
It is never OK to run away because of your: Alcohol use Drug use Feelings of failure
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The National Runaway Safeline is open 24/7. You can call for advice at 1-800-786-2929, or visit the Safeline website at: http://www. 1800runaway. org Remember that no matter how difficult your situation or how alone you feel, there are people who care deeply about your safety and well-being.
Cash Change for the laundromat First aid kit Coat Sleeping bag Socks Change of clothes (x2) Change of underwear/bra (x2) Toothbrush/paste Tampons/pads Hairbrush Water bottle Non-perishable food (granola bars, canned food) Pepper spray Deodorant[9] X Research source
Keep in mind that arid climates, like the desert, get very cold after dark. A lightweight thermal blanket could save your life.
A location with public transportation is a good choice, as it is cheaper and faster than other options. A bicycle can be useful, but its weight and safety can be a bigger hassle than help. Bridges offer protection from the elements and the cement will hold warmth from the day through the night. Beware of others if you attempt sleeping under a bridge; these are popular locations for other homeless people. If you chose to go to a homeless shelter, you must be prepared to answer questions when you arrive. A friend or a relative’s house should be considered but will come with its own rules. You will always have to respect the homes of others.
If you have turned to drugs or alcohol as a way of coping with the things you have suffered, this will eventually cause even greater harm to you physically and emotionally. You are not to blame; whatever you have suffered has pushed you into a vulnerable place. However, you cannot truly be well on your own until you address and resolve your addictions or dependencies. [12] X Research source
Child Helpline: (800) 422-4453
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The train or a bus can take you a great distance for a small cost. Wear a cap with a brim or a hood so that your face is covered and you do not show up on security footage. To make yourself less noticeable, dye your hair a common color that’s different from your natural shade and/or cut your hair. Be sure your new haircut/dye job doesn’t look sloppy; some might question your appearance if you aren’t careful. Take clothes you rarely or never wear. You can always purchase new clothing cheap from a thrift store so you aren’t wearing anything that can identify you.
However, never take food from someplace or someone that doesn’t look or isn’t reputable or trustworthy. If someone or someplace looks suspicious, or if food smells or looks suspicious, take the food, but when the person leaves, toss it away. Don’t refuse it or toss it away in their sight because they might hurt you if you do so. Trust your instincts. If something doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t. For example, if you are given some spinach and you feel a sick feeling in your stomach as you look at it, do not eat it. Or if someone or someplace looks reputable or safe, but you feel suspicious, don’t eat the offered gift. Some people can and will give you poisoned food and drinks. Never, under any circumstances, drink any liquids offered to you. They may be spiked or contain poison. Only drink water from water fountains where the water is good to drink.
Dress like you are going to school or an informal church event, not like you are going to a party. Clothing with lots of pockets will provide you with places to keep the necessary supplies.
Although other runaways/homeless may abuse drugs or alcohol, and may even offer you some, always refuse the offer. It will be difficult for you to defend yourself when drunk, high, or incapacitated.
If someone says, “I saw you with money last night,” say that it’s all gone, even if you still have some. Keep a spare, visible bag or purse with a few dollars and coins. This way, if you’re robbed, they’ll take this instead. [16] X Research source If you run out of money for food, be careful when begging. This will draw attention, and in some cases, upset other homeless. It is also illegal to beg for money in some places. A supermarket that offers free samples is a great place you can find food without drawing attention to yourself. If someone asks, you can always say you’re waiting for your mom.
